WUZZZ DA DEAL JUST GOT ON HERE TO SAY WUZZ UP AND KILL TIME for more good word check out my myspace page ALOT OF TIMES IN LIFE AS WE SEARCH FOR A NEW RELATIONSHIP WE FIND OUR SELFS IN A POSITION EITHER YOU TAKE THE FULL PACKAGE OR NOT. NOW I KNOW THIS SOUNDS REPEDAITIVE BUT IN A WAY ITS NOT AND IS. PROBABLY ONE OF THE BIGGEST THINGS WE HAVE TO ACCEPT WHEN TRYING TO MOVE INTO A RELATIONSHIP IS THE KIDS. KIDS PLAY A BIG ROLE IN A RELATIONSHIP TO START MOVE FORAWARD OR NOT GO NO WHERE AT ALL. AS TIME HAS GO ON LIKE IVE SAID BEFORE IT WENT FROM ASKIN ARE YOU SINGLE TO DO YOU HAVE A KID TO DO YOU HAVE KIDS. AND WHEN GETTING TO KNOW SOME ONE AND WANTING TO ENGAGE IN A LOVE RELATIONSHIP YOU HAVE TO LAY THE GROUNDS DOWN AT FIRST THAT HEY I GOT KIDS AND IN ORDER TO BE WITH ME YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT THAT I DO HAVE KIDS AND THEN WE CAN MOVE FORWARD. NOW DOES THIS MEAN U JUMP THEM INTO BEING A FATHER OR A MOTHER NO IT DOSENT . DOES IT MEAN YOU INTRODUCE THEM TO YOUR KIDS RIGHT AWAY NO IT DOSENT. ALL IT DOSE IS SETTING A POINT THAT THEY ARE WILLING TO ACCEPT THAT YOU HAVE KIDS AND YALL KNOW YALL CAN WORK AND TAKE THE TIME TO KNOW EACHOTHER TO SEE IF HE OR SHE WOULD BE A GOOD MOM OR DAD AND WHEN U ARE ABSOLUTLEY SURE YOU INTRODUCE THEM TO YOUR KISDS. TAKEN A RISK OF INTRUDICING YOUR KIDS TO STRANGE MEN OR WOMEN COULD EFFECT THERE PRECEPTION OF WHO IS THE FATHER OR THE MOTHER . BUT ANYWAYS THATS A WHOLE OTHER GOOD WORD. AND HERE AGAIN NOT ONLY ACCEPTING KIDS BUT ALSO EXXCEPTING ANY PROBLEMS THEY MAY HAVE WEITHER IT BE PAST PRESTN OR FUTURE REMEMBER ITS ALWAYS GOOD TO OPEN UP AND LAY IT ALL ON THE LINE DONT HIDE ANY SECRETS BECAUSE THEY ARE THE SECRETS THAT COME LATER AND DESTROY A RELATIONSHIP. NOT ONLY THAT THAT PERSON COULD BE THERE TO HELP YOU HE OR SHE COULD PROBABLY BE THE ONE TO SAVE YOU OR HELP SOLVE THE PROBLEM ALSO BE THERE TO COMFORT YOU AND BE BY YOUR SIDE DURING THE TUFF TIMES. IF YOU NEVER LET HE OR SHE IN HOW DO YOU EXPECT EVER TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM PLUS IF U LEAVE