this time around imma keep this lil scripture.. as concise as possible. if you haven't read part 1.. i suggest you do.. as it's a good solid primer... to this installment...
truth be told... when peopel speak of this whole soulmate business... they're full of shit ;] cuz in blatent reality. the facts are simple. ANY guy can have ANY girl... he so desires. period. keyword DESIRES. if you want it, you'll get it. if you want it, it'll happen. if you want, you'll get. in order to get.. you must want... sometimes such an infatuation, obsession, desire... fatal attraction.. etc etc... is beyond what most are capable of carryin' on their shoulders. so they give up.
two theories that i live by are worth raisin' a brow to.
if aria giovanni and i were to live to be 100,000,001 years old.. chances are... that i'll have packed n sacked her bag of potatoes... which brings anotha sub-theory to light... the hacking method.
the more you hack away, the more likely it'll fall. shawshank redemption. homey hacked away at that wall for .. what was it...15-20 years? w/ nothin' more than a pick axe which fit inside a bible. so there is hope out there for ya'll w/ them small toolz... heh
confidence is.. self assurance...among ONESELF!.. cocky is the same thing... except you feel the neeeeeed to share w/ others this self assurance.... where you draw the line is up to you. keep in mind... bein' cocky is borderline conceited. notice the theme of Cs here....
simple. develop your confidence. here's some ways.
this shit aint easy. especially when you're waitin in line.. empty handed. in a non smokin' area lol. for instance... if you're really bold.. sew your pockets.. or wear pants that dont have any on the sides. if sans pockets isn't an option then discipline yourself to keep your hands outta your pockets long enough.. eventually it'll be become habitual.. and while every otha foo is retreatin' their hands to their pockets whenever a chance is given... you'll be there w/ your hands at your side... makin' it obvious you have nothin' to hide... but the beauty is.. it's not obvious to you anymore.. but it is to the females.
look at the ceilin' instead. just not directly above you. point is.. to keep you chin up. you'll appear taller... your presence will have more impact... and in general you'll look like you're not havin' a shitty day like the vulnerable losers next to you who are in the process of developin' a foot fetish .. cuz that's all they usually see on the ground!
be happy they're rejectin' you now! ... most likely you'd be rejectin' them further down the line anyways. so they're doin' you a fuckin' favor.. time is a precious. .. thus consider rejection FAIR WARNING that if you choose to trespass that boundry that NO GOLD EXISTS AT THE END OF HER RAINBOW. you just fool yourself into thinkin' otherwise! which you brought upon yourself due to challenge. you're overcomin' you're own challenge.. congratz.. too bad you're the only one rewardin' urself after such an accomplishment by pattin' yourself on the back while you realize you're about to reject her due to the WHAT-THE-FUCK-WAS-I-THINKING syndrome.
start off w/ seekin' out fat ugly repulsive females. and try yo' damnest (remember confidence) to get rejected! if these primates are rejectin' you.. then you've already faced the worst rejection of all.. straight from the last rung on the ladder.. if Wildebeast and LLama lookin' breezies are kickin' you to the curb then you should have zero problems gettin' rejected from a mammal a bit higher on the food chain. reason bein'.. cuz you'll start to EXPECT REJECTION. you can say such conflicts w/ the whole point of instillin' confidence within yourself... but this is false.. as it does nothin' more than FUELS your confidence (sometimes into the cocky realm)... since you have now learned to expect the worst.. yet hope for the best. but since you're a confident lil playa... you'll ACCEPT THE WORST, cuz you'll KNOW WHAT'S BEST.
if you find urself talkin' to a breezy you just approached.. or whatever scenario... the best tactic i can give you.. is to STAY SILENT. no i don't mean use sign language. but after you ask... what's her name... or where she's from.. balh blah.. or for her number. cut yourself OFF. do not ramble. instantly go silent. keep direct eye contact w/ her... and smile.. (or give ya lil playa that could look). but DO NOT TALK... DO NOT BREAK THE SILENCE AFTER YOU HAVE JUST SAID YOUR PEACE. she * WILL * reply. and 95% of the time it will be what you want to hear.
let your eye contact and facial expression (e.g. smile) do the talking. only speak when you have a question. do not elaborate, do not answer your own question, do not babble, do not "save the silence" by changin' the subject. save that for a time when you two are comfortable conversin' w/ one anotha down the line.
in essence you are PLEADING THE 5TH.. by stayin' silent. since most of the jibber jabber when guys are tryin' to get the # n what not simply incriminates themselves and their position... and when they get rejected, they wonder why.
i'll letcha take it from there... if you persist on gettin her real # all cuz she gave you a fake one..... cuz you really wanna fuck her now... then bravo.. you're a sucka, doin' what you do best. wastin' time.
if you're already choppin' it up w/ her friend... and... fuckin' that friend a week later.... aw shiet...revenge is sweet... and so is pussy... the lil playa that could...
-sickz