alright, i'm not about to drop some ancient secrets here... but... if you wanna keep the learnin' and findin' out thru ur own experiences... fresh, then i suggest u refrain from readin' any further, as this could contaminate yo "game". if you're game to read or u got nothin' betta to do.. hopefully you'll be entertained... scroll down
[i'll reformat some of the stuff to make it easier to read later on]
one note.. this is VERY LONG... VERY EXTENSIVE...i'm positive it's fileld w/ numerous typos and all kinds of otha misspellings and such... but this isn't an essay, so i won't be proofreadin' it anytime soon..... anywys after all that typin'... realize that GETTIN' A FEMALE can suck up libraries of books...also note that... everyone goes about their actions in their own way... so i try n keep this as general as possible... and also w/ a good example of "chat" at the end for balance... no it's not GAME in action... and i don't like to think of it that way.. it's really just talkin' to others.. and havin' fun.. anyways consider this a summary.. cuz a book of this nature would never be finished.. especially on females enjoy
first of all, you don't play them, you play the game... i hate that idiom. ok that's cleared up... letz get into the thick
second, the most important thing you need to know about a female.. is.. her. you need to understand them.. basically you need to pretend you are one to an extent, and you'll have a better idea of how to gauge their reactions. various methods to figurin' this out. the way i went about it, was simply askin' a lot of questions... yea i'd look like a fool to some, but wat i learned from them, gave me the benefit over many.
these are the main points w/ my philosophy when it comes to such:
seems like a lot, but it's really not. in the beginnin' this leaves you rather limited to the girls you can actually game successfully.. wow that makes females out to be some sort of recreation... bingo anyone? feel free to go out and learn as much as you can on your own... or just steal some information form me, if u consider it worthy, is up to you.
everyday, you're surrounded by media bout how complicated these females are .. well they really aren't... we all start from the basics, so let's go back to em.
the most significant difference between you (assumin' you got a dick, and it wasn't surgically attached there at beverly hills, or strapped on in result to ur visit to the hustler store) and her.. is the fact she is always thinkin' for 2 instead of 1. there's always that element of chance she'll get pregnant, so every decision she makes in her life consults her inner child for feedback. AKA the heart. now.. when you got one person thinkin' for 2, and decidin' for 2. you're left w/ a lot of uncertainty. and this brings me to their basis:
the repercussions of those two traits brings out the otha important two
all females have these 4 traits, the former 2 bein' the most dominant in their actions, leavin' the latter two.. to occassionally hit the backburner under the right circumstances. in the modern world, all this translates to... confusion.. for YOU! hence why they're so "complicated".. or percieved to be... if u wanna see this in yo everyday life... just look for the usual... i dunno, maybe, i guess, i think, we'll see, ummm yea, mmmmkay, etc etc... you get the point. pretty much the things guys ... can't bear to hear. this is why when you put a group of females together at the mall, they'll just stand in the middle of it arguin' over where to go first lol. yet when u put a group of guys in the middle.. they'll just split the fuck up n get things done.. meetin' back up later.
an important rule to keep within yo head.. is never look down upon their basics. yeaa they can become annoying, and simply just frustratin' to deal with... aka "bitchy" (bitchy means moodswings, unexpected, random actions... NOT simply screamin' at someone to shut the fuck up... that's simply a bitch).. but my point is.. don't put a female on a condescendence, or act superior to em just because they don't know what the hell they want all the time. it's actually admirable in a way, so treat it as such.
you can pretty much sum up their basics w/ one word... "feel". they act on things based on how they feel about them... it's always a feel, they are never 100% sure, and never will be.. THIS is why... one of the worst things you can do when tryin' to involve yoself w/ one.. is PRESSURE her... that is a no no.. leave it outta ur vocabulary. peer pressure is relatively the same thing, just on a more subliminal level, so don't try n compare the two when you're defendin' yourself cuz she told you to back off cuz ur pressurin' her. it's too forcefully direct. and that is the precursor for the worst crime you can ever do to a female. i don't even like the word, so im not gon' say it. but don't even dance around that bush puttin' it into her head.
poker is a game. like everything else. poker brings two concepts together. KNOWLEDGE + RISK. the fact it creates the two at various levels all throughout the game quickly, is what makes it excitin'.. and ahem.. TRENDY for people to play. poker is a game of LIMITED INFORMATION and TAKING CHANCES.
if that's all you had to do to win, then everyone would play. so poker divides itself to two situations:
poker players that play to make money, obviously only involve themselve w/ hands where they've managed to put the statistics in their favor to the best of their ability. they'll take down the most pots, they'll generate the best reads on other players, and pretty much they'll be respected by all at the table.. except themselves cuz they're fuckin' bored.
the careless player, "loose", who plays aggressively, out to just have a good time... will prolly leave the table w/ nothing. but you'll see these players.. takin' down disgustingly huge pots on random occassions. they usually lose it all back.. but they had a fuckin' blast
the usual balance, yin/yang is present here just like everywhere else...which brings me to the four basic types of players at a table:
i'm not gonna get into descriptions of all 4, but the most effective to makin' money consistantly, is the tight aggressive player. and yes... if you wannabe successful w/ gettin' females more often... that is goin' to be you. tight-aggressive.
so whats' it take to be a tight-aggressive player? discipline, patience, logic, intelligence/smarts, greed, deception, fearless, ability to ADAPT, and.. character.
that sounds like some dungeons n dragons shit... now lets roll dice and assign numbers to all ur skills.. yea right... this may or may not be you, it doesn't matter. because the more experience you have in dealin' w/ females, the more you'll grow in where you lack, eventually balancin' yourself out.. into a well rounded person... with focus.
so how does all this apply to a female? heh... initially i was gonna use converstaions, aim conversations, n point out various things.. but that'll become too tedious... think of it this way.. on the poker table... you're lookin' for just the right moment to get your chips in there, when you know statistics are heavily in your favor. chances are, you'll take down that pot. you're tight. not passive, tight. aka coldhearted in the real world... you're patient.. you sit and wait... for your moment, waiting... then you become someone completely aggressive, they bet out.. you come right over the top... seat 3 comes over the top and raises you... peopel fold... and you call to see the turn.. fearless.. the turn drops, player 2 bets out, you toss in a smooth raise, they get angry and reraise.....yet here u are... an aggressive confident player.. ready to fuckin' fire... but you're always lookin' for a reason to fold... and in go your cards, mucked... like you've been calm at the table since you've sat there.
now for some real tables...
it's not easy explainin' "what to do" "What to say" when you interact w/ a female.. but the fact is.. they have the advantage.. they have the pussy.. they have the final word.. and all you're left w/.. is a dick.. and a fuckin' brain......and they got the anti-fuckin' brain... lovely.. remember females live based on feel.. and since us guys.. are at a gender inferiority..hell even socially... we have to look for the upperhand (no pun intended you idiotz that hit ur girlz) somehow. first.. all the mind traits you have... that we listed above.. most form somethin' that resembles a "feel". the good about this.. is you're never truely move on feel.. but as long as she doesn't know that, that's the point. and to your advantage... since it's all based on logical traits... you're CONFIDENT and KNOW about the situation at all times... yet you convey that as a form of "Feel". now.. that's a win / win for us. and that is the basis of your game... YOU KNOW, she doesn't know, she doesn't know about you.. she just thinks. AKA...
it's an evil word.. but it's the only advantage we got. a magician never tells their secret (well except me).. sooo never tell her yours. now u need to use the deception, w/o bein' deceptive like.. towards her...
if u were ugly at some point in ur life, good, u developed some charisma n personality durin' that stage of depression. ;] this is ur "sugercoat" as you can call it... to implementin' your deceptive moves. and this leads us to.. ugh.. prolly the biggest "secret" i've learned thru out livin'... but..
how many times have u heard ppl tell you to be direct, tell em how u feel.. yada yada... BEING DIRECT IS ONE OF THE MOST ABUSED METHODS IN DEALING WITH FEMALES. you are direct, you get caught, you are direct, you are a robot and all you want is a pussy, you are direct and you just told her what she's not supposed to know... so... the KEY.. is BE INDIRECT.
finally... some situationz...
if you see a female at the end of a room, and you're standin' on the otha end... and you wanan walk over and say wassup... how do you go about that? the most obvious is just walk across straight up to her face and say hello... the problem with this method, is that most guys dont' have the outright ballz to do such a thing. why? because for that whole time you're walkin' towards her... she's WATCHING YOU, STUDYING YOU, GETTING A FEEL, and pretty much already DECIDED what she's gonna say to you.. before you've even seen if she's a mona lisa or not. you gave her a HUGE advantage over you... lettin' her check u out, while u was ALREADY INTO YOUR GAME MODE.. while she stands there, doin' what she was already doin'... STANDING THERE.
now.. u can argue and say this method brings praise.. because it's bold, shows confidence in knowin' what u want, and it's rare (remember ppl are shy).. but that's the point... it's already so known about... that it's practically expected.. and all you look like to her... is a guy doin' wat he does best.. showin' off his ballz to his otha guy friends who were too pussy to walk up w/ him.
wow that was exhausting.. alright so... we're back against the wall. still debatin' upon... how to talk to her.. w/o givin' her that advantage. the first problem is.. the longer you stand there! the more likely she is to notice u standin' there. and this is why u really gotta move quickly.. DO NOT CHECK THEM OUT FROM A FAR WHILE UR STOPPED FOR PERIODS OF TIME. if you already did this... you're in quite the deep of a hole.. and at a severely disadvantage already... why? cuz she's on to you.. and if u magically pop up next to her from that door that's near her left.. and she sees you... then you have entered yourself into the WEIRDO zone... now you're a stalker.. (that's wat they call ya to their friends)... and stalkers bring fear.. cuz of pressure.. so ur quite fucked already.
so let's say you did check her out from across the room cuz u couldn't help urself? and she's on to you... and ur rattlin' ur brain... and u remember.. you fold the hand... (do not fight a losing battle)... now.. it's gonna bother you, affect you, and leave you w/ a lot of wonderin' in your head.. essentially a buncha WHAT IFS.. well next time think faster. quick, fast, decisions. learn from ur mistakes... AND REMEMBER THIS SITUATION NEXT TIME YOU'RE IN A SIMILAR SITUATION... you'll have added knowledge and information... cuz.. deja vu.. an advantage.
ok well lets say ur on round 2... female across the room again... u get a glance, but just a glance... goin' about ur business you decide on how to make the best INDIRECT approach NATURALLY.... yes.. deception & charisma at work again... this time you walk the edges of the room, goin' all the way around.. she's less likely to notice you, cuz ur not all out in the open stridin' across the room like an eager football jock.... and before you know it you're witin 5 feet of her presence when she flips her head around to see you walkin' up to her... she is startled, cuz you caught her by...
walah, they all love em.. surprises. it's further reminder that you're not like the rest (predictable). well, here you are... you caught her by surprise (indirectness at work)...you have the advantage.. you have the first shot... now u need to do something or say something. or choke. the good thing about this situation is.. if u managed to make enough of a surprised/comfortable reaction already.. she'll give you some fuck up room.. for if u do start to tear down ur advantage.. and show your true sorry self... and times like this.. is when.. it's sad to say.. ur gonna be glad u sent a few IMz online.. cuz all u can do there.. is really talk...
so fuckin' talk... actually you have to talk.. because this is where all u strengths are... charisma and deception.. along w/ everything we mentioned before that backs those two. u could rely on ur looks.. sure.. and say wsup, wacha doin'. who u waitin' for.. where u goin'... but then ur gon start sufferin' from the W-syndrome.. and that'll become apparent.. and turn her off... if not then.. then later.. so once again.. talk. ur gon spend most of ur time talkin' to females.. isntead of fuckin' em (yea i know, but what did u expect?).. cuz eventually you'll be able to talk more, with greater effectiveness.. without sayin' much at all.. then u can go ahead and get ur pussy quicker.. but until u develop that.. talk.
there's no set way... wrong or right... the phrase we all hate to hear.. is definitely prominant when you're talking.. be yourself... don't take on an image of DMX rappin' to his girl while he sits on his bike. flailin' the arms around.. while ur spittin' game... please don't.. just talk.. don't overexagerate yourself.. don't laugh at their jokes if they aren't funny..... basically.. DO NOT TRY TOO HARD (aka desperate). all why bein' urself.. the most important role you gotta take on when talkin' to a female... is it's time to pretend ur one urself.. u gotta look for more advantage and take it. this is when you FIGHT FIRE WITH FIRE. it's her natural job to keep you guessin'.. hittin' you w/ random complicatedness.. well now it's time to make her feel simple and special while you become the suspenseful one. be confident... tell her indirectly what ur thinkin'... yet give it some impact.. pay attention to her... and let her know you are with your EYES.. you listen w/ your eyes.. not your ears.. if you can't help yourself and find your eyes droppin' towards her chest... and she confronts you, DO NOT DENY your actions... save yourself with deceptive honesty.. and..
mmm this is your weapon... laughter is the best medicine.. and they weren't fuckin' lying... if you can make her LAUGH.. no not giggle n twirl her hair...at will (this is actually not easy).. then she is practically yours.. as long as u don't turn into a comedian... (y'kno how they have that problem.. they're always "ON").. well you're ON when you see the best openin' for it..
why is laughter the secret weapon? well i wouldn't call it a secret.. but it does go a bit deeper than that. u ever notice when people genuinely laugh, they sound like weezing idiots? this relates to the fact we were trained to hide our emotions.. and not let everyone see em for free.. they're special reactions u can say... so most of us laugh w/ style.. or suaaaveeee... eh.. but ur not laughin'.. you're playin'.. exactly.. YOU'RE playing.. while she should be the one laughin'.. you break her outta her everyday mode.. of routine and style.. and get her to laugh... n reveal herself... ur good.. people like to laugh... so she won't do anythin' but give u props for your humor... you'll make her smile.. which is anotha emotion emergin' from within' her... basically... you've got one of the key ingredients to control her emotions at will. and as long as u control em to give em good feelings for her.. she won't complain one bit... she'll eventually start to
ahhh...pretty much the fossil fuel which which makes guys tick.. yea well.. despite the basics of a female... in 2005, females like challenge too.. they'll encourage it..... now once u find urself in the challengin' phases.. which is pretty much there everytime u reactin' or actin' towards her.. is when you are "OFFICIALLY GAMIN"... aww.. back to the table.. w/ a fresh stack of chips to play w/... this is where all the fun, excitement, sad, n sorrow breed from.. challenge.... you push her.. she pushes back.. u give her a nudge on the shoulder, she socks u back.. damn ok homegirl.. relax... ppl are always challengin' eachother... so u gotta challenge her, somehow.. someway.. to bring a good challenge back from her....
the point is.. guys live on challenge... girls do too.. but they hit a point where they toss it out the window.. n go back to basics.... i believe this is called... marriage? lol.. committed relationships.. bf/gf.. whatever u wanna call it.. eventually she'll toss in the gloves... n will give up all games because her feelings are too strong for u.. to let u potentially hurt em w/ challenge... yes challenge will still exist when the gloves are off, but it's neva as GAME LIKE... you'll find a lot of girls overdoin' the challenge aspect (aka hard2get).. and a lot of guys doin' wat they're not supposed to do (losin' interest immediately) all because someone accomplished and the other gave up. i really can't tell u how to challenge a female... but the key idea all comes back to fightin' fire w/ fire.. and keepin' her GUESSING. the day she finds you predictable, is the day u won't be found, cuz she'll be talkin' to some otha fooz already... yup.. she lost interest, u got boring.. yada yada. predict her, don't let her predict you.
i suppose i'll fetch an example, as i'm too lazy to become mr scriptwriter right now... so lesse if i can get somethin' short... eh.. guess i'll just use cpixel... but the problem w/ that is.. as sad as it is.. i already have an advantage cuz of the whole "Sickz" owner phenonemon which lessens up on a lot of advantage i gotta find at that moment... but fuck... after 3 yrs on cpixel, i deserve it lol.. but let's see wats out there..
alright i got one... and i had to save my ass numerous times to get her in the position i wanted to... guess i'll elaborate on that later.. lots of points are proven.. so it's a good one to look at..
[once again, i'll format it for ease on the eyes eventually, isn't that important to me... but i know it's a bit of a struggle to read but all the info is there..]
it's long... so that's a warning... i got her AIM off cpixel by askin' this time lol.. but here's the beginning
Sickz: ya mind if i "aol stalk" for 5 min or so? i'll be quickkk (her aim mentioned stalkers)(basically she told me i was an idiot there for not payin' attention lol.... but since i came in a lil surprisin' tryin' to make fun n jokes she let me slide... if u remember this was touched on somewhere up there in all that article)
(on to the convo....)
Sickz_some_Name (11:25:24 AM): someone's leet... (confidence/arrogance)now there's one thing i wanna speak on.. which is a big factor... in talkin' to ppl... and pretty much only holds true when u talkin online.. or in private msgs... or even text msgin' someone.... u gotta mention it.. cuz a lot of ppl communicate on them methods.. is the time between responses from one anotha... that's why i left the timestamps there... if there's a lag from me.. to respond to her.. it's there on purpose... it's challenge pretty much... because if u dont' respond for long enuff period of time.. they'll wonder.. then they're wonderin' if they should respond to you.. AGAIN w/o u havin' responded... see my point? then it turns into one of u... typin' about 6-7-8 messages on ur own... w/ shit like "hello? u there? yoo hooo!?"... this is one of the BIGGEST FAULTS in gamin'.. do not.. fuckin' do this.. and it's one of the hardest to control.. cuz ppl really are doin' otha shit.. cuz the fact is... typin' is a lot easier than fones n shiet cuz u aint gotta pay 100% to the otha person... u can.. but they don't know that.... then u will give em all that attention, and they trip out when u don't... thus .... someone becomin' a lil crybaby.. and overwhelmin' the otha.. guys are usually suspect to this the most... and girls hate it... it's an ugly needy trait to show... so that's why i told ya up there.. ya need PATIENCE and DISCIPLINE.... to type in them situations.. if u really feel the need... if u have the urge to type all that bullshit... stand up and walk away.. and let them deal w/ the same issue .. you were lol... that whole timin' between respondin'.. is a whole game in itself really.... and really the most important... if u come w/ confidence.. u won't feel the need to drop 6 msgs on her head cuz she was fixin' her hair for 30 seconds... cuz YOU KNOW she'll respond when she's capable... and ieven if she didn't want to, to begin with (tryin' to ignore u) u'll basically suck her into the same game she was playin'... and she won't do it anymore... so ya think ;] GAMIN'
if you made it down to this paragraph, then you deserve to know some of the stronger points.
- the best game is no game. because it's simply part of who you are.
- never stop chasing her.
- your looks don't matter to her, you just think they do. and as you get older you'll become a lot less superficial with time as well..
- no this was not a demonstration to "POSE" ... just as real examples as i can find for text, and plenty of my own opinions.
- honesty.
- don't forget to just have fun, because that's livin'
TO: CICI... this damn fine female... gets a HUGE thank you.. although she aint known what she's done yet... ;]
-sickz